Comments on: About Barebacking: From LEO GIAMANI & VINCE FERELLI to Fans

By: Agent Harley

Agent Harley — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 04:00:39 +0000

Damn. That comment by the real doctor, Robert, is just a cold, cold splash of truth.

He says 85% are poz and don’t even know it? Wow.

And I had been thinking the same thing about Leo and the MCAT thing. If you had wanted to go to med school or what ever graduate program, you would have.

I think that the “celebrity” appeal and the fan-worship were a bigger lure than any professional degree – and so it is like Icarus flying into the sun. It is a short-lived, meteoric rise before a long, cold plunge into the societal outcast dark hole.

By: shorejim

shorejim — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 21:56:19 +0000

Thank you Robert, you never hear anyone mention anal warts (many forms of HPV cause cancer in both men and women) , any of the multiple forms of hepatitis, or any of the long term consequences of unprotected, multiple partner sex. I am a 38 YO man, who has been out for a long time, I actually remember the funerals of almost all the gay kids of my mother and grandmothers friends. I lost 3 friends from 1989-1992 that were fellow art students to AIDS, and have watched many friends and colleagues whither away. I place the blame both on the performers and the producers. I myself do watch bareback porn, only because there is such a proliferation on the internet it is hard to find condoms in use. The performers know that they will get paid more if they go without the condom, and the producers hold that over the head of the performer. Especially within the realm of the broke str8 guy. $1500 to bottom, but $2500 to do it without a condom. I watch men that I have known for years from Philadelphia NYC and Washington DC, that I KNOW are HIV positive bareback these 18-22 year old men in the “breeding” vids and get sick to my stomach. Really? You want to wish this on someone else, and be a knowing purveyor of a communicable diesease? I can remember when one former Philadelphian making bareback vids was wasting away in the 90’s. I think of the old commercial with the line, “and they’ll tell their friends, and they will tell their friends, and so on, and so on…” all it takes is I’ll fuck this one, and they fuck that one, and they’ll fuck that one and so on, and so on. The man that you sero-convert tomorrow, is the man that could potentially sero-convert my next BF in 2 years. I have a problem with the whole willingness of the industry to allow the NON use of condoms to have proliferated this long, and I have a problem with the people who help to promote the fact that I could be watching a man sign his own death sentence for $1500-$2500 a scene.

By: Robert

Robert — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 11:17:17 +0000

Leo, just so you know one no longer needs to study chemistry to go to medical school, but as a doctor myself I find it absurd that you would claim you want to be a doctor and then have unprotected sex in a video. In addition since you purport to be so intelligent I would venture to ask why you chose porno over medicine. You must know, though you failed to mention, that being tested for HIV is only the tip of the proverbial iceberg; you didn’t mention if you had been vaccinated for hepatitis A & B, or pneumonia or had the tetanus vaccine or even the flu shot. Escorting and porno put one at risk for many sexually transmitted diseases besides HIV. I would recommend the anal cnacer test as well since you have bottomed. In my practice I see many excorts and men who do porno. I would say that roughly 85% are positive and nearly all of them weren’t aware of their status.

By: Ghost

Ghost — Wed, 06 May 2009 00:18:38 +0000

I wish more actors would refuse to bareback; that kind of risky sex really ruins my enjoyment. Isn’t the porn world exploitative enough as it is without risking people’s lives?

And vk, are you really in a position to explain exactly what heterosexual women do and don’t like?

In the opinion of this heterosexual woman, it is entirely possible that gfp actors have girlfriends who are fine with their porn work. They might even have girlfriends who get off on it.

By: Eduardo

Eduardo — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 01:08:04 +0000

I adore Leo, does someone where could I write to him ?

By: vk

vk — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 19:34:33 +0000

“I truly feel sorry for those chicks you guys call girlfriends or wives.”

That’s if she doesn’t know, I would feel very sorry for her. But if she does, than that’s on her. When these so-called gay4pay guys claim they have girlfriends or wives, I personally believe these women are nothing more but covers, if not faghags. But who knows, maybe their girlfriends or wives are bisexual and they have some type of arrangement, I don’t know. I say this again, it is a known fact that, heterosexual women do not want men who likes more dick than she does. She is not going to be cool with her man having sexual liaisons, let alone, doing gay porn for the whole world to see, while she is in a relationship with that man, for crying out loud, lol!!

By: Glen S.

Glen S. — Thu, 05 Feb 2009 05:38:49 +0000

I’m not questioning your right to do porn – just the hostile nature of how you go about doing it.

I truly feel sorry for those chicks you guys call girlfriends or wives.

By: Glen S.

Glen S. — Thu, 05 Feb 2009 05:36:48 +0000

This is 28 years of pent up frustration and anger. So why not vent on a posting board, at least it’s a healthier way then starring in porn to work out issues, like some people. I was okay until I saw this posting. I had accepted that porn was just a crutch and nothing more for both the performer and viewer.

Porn is just another part of our society, and it reflects it views of sexuality…. that all gays are heterosexuals with psychological problems. AKA Gay for Pay.

By: Glen S.

Glen S. — Thu, 05 Feb 2009 04:59:26 +0000

Oh and I forgot: Douche!

By: Glen S.

Glen S. — Thu, 05 Feb 2009 04:58:16 +0000

Thanks, “Enough:” Your stirring comment has made me rethink everything.

Gay-Gray? Is there such a thing? Come on, you got to be kidding. Most out gays know that if your questioning or curious, then your probably already gay. Straight people often never have to question or for that matter have to have sex with the same sex to figure out their straight.

So what part is a fantasy, when the two guys on film are sucking and fucking each other… or when I’m watching it?

“Grow up. Not everyone has to see the world as you do…” – Sounds like you should take your own advice.

I ask those who often fantasize about “seducing” a straight guy, “Step back and look at yourself”

I’m weary of performers: They’re one big cliche after another, burnt out druggies or closet queens.

“After reading a few of your posts relating to gay-for-pay…” – It seems I’ve caught your attention. Now why would I? Your not one of the performers mentioned? Huh?

Well, if it is who I think it is, then you’ve got some balls telling me that I’m having an identity crisis. I’m curious, who was your psychology prof. when you were studying to be a chemist? Nice to see you’ve kept to your goals.

You can shove that fucking Bachelors degree up your ass along with Erik Rhodes dick, you raging bottom – and you call yourself “straight.” Okay, yeah, sure.