Jaxton Wheeler broke this sad news on his Twitter that gay porn star Alexander Gustavo has passed away. “The industry lost one if it’s great people today. @Alexanderprnstr is no longer with us.” Billy Santoro also uploaded this heartfelt video about the news that Alexander has committed suicide. This is a truly sad news for the industry. Rest in peace.
The industry lost one if it's great people today. @Alexanderprnstr is no longer with us. Any close friends please hit me up for more info
— Jaxton Wheeler (@JaxtonWheeler) December 18, 2016
Please take care of each other!!! pic.twitter.com/tPhqdRePzI
— Billy Santoro (@BillySantoroXXX) December 18, 2016
Fucking love you bro so much pic.twitter.com/UVZsThcIBF
— Jaxton Wheeler (@JaxtonWheeler) December 18, 2016
RIP Alexander Gustavo. This breaks my heart! Your energy was amazing!! We lost someone very special!!!
— Billy Santoro (@BillySantoroXXX) December 18, 2016
I just woke up to the news that my friend Alexander Gustavo passed away last night. RIP my friend. I am in tears
— Trenton Ducati (@TrentonDucati) December 18, 2016
Sad news. Apparently @Alexanderprnstr passed away yesterday. This is sad day and a huge loss for all of us. You will be missed ???????????? pic.twitter.com/LpeYb2DELq
— AUSTIN WOLF (@AUSTINWOLFFF) December 18, 2016
Rest with the Angels, Alexander Gustavo…you will be missed greatly. Our hearts go out to all your family and friends.
— Falcon Studios (@FalconStudiosPR) December 18, 2016
R.I.P. Alexander
Sweet Soul. pic.twitter.com/OSqt6WgSpR— Chi Chi LaRue (@DJChiChiLaRue) December 18, 2016
He was so proud of this award. Face lit up, talking how much it meant to him. #RIP #AlexanderGustavo. @Grabbys @QueerMeNow @DJChiChiLaRue pic.twitter.com/6KA6WW7M8Z
— Philly T (@philliyT) December 18, 2016
Rest in peace Alexander Gustavo
God bless him.@Bufibears @HotMaleStuds pic.twitter.com/dTr4T2zrKC— MIGUEL SOLO (@miguelsolo611) December 18, 2016
#RestInPeace Special Heart @Alexanderprnstr you will be missed love :o((( pic.twitter.com/nqhF5QSr7T
— kermie mack (@KermieM) December 18, 2016
Netzahualcóyotl Mendoza. says
¿Porqué lo hiciste? ¡Oh my god!
luke says
I’m always asking to myself, what’s happening in the mind of people who commit suicide. I think that something at some point crash in their mind.
red1979 says
Why is it that most early deaths among gay porn stars is suicide? Are they diagnosed with HIV and don’t want to deal with it? I really want to understand what’s going on.
Jose says
Very sad to hear this kind of news! Always sorry to hear that someone pass away like this! I didn’t know him but really sorry! Rest in peace!
Jose says
Very sad to hear this kind of news! Always sorry to hear that someone pass away like this! I didn’t know him but really sorry! Rest in peace!
dustyblade says
I’ve never heard of him. R.I.P though.
Filip says
This is terrible. It worries me a lot that so many Gay Porn models has committed suicide over the last two years. You of course think of his family and friends in a tragic situation like this.
robert says
when people reach a point of despair and depression it can seem like the only way out
Jay says
But I wonder if the real cause of death was suicide or accidental death from drug overdose or drug abuse, as so often is the cause with these party-boy sex workers?
Eric says
I read he shot himself.
fafner says
Billy Santoro got to make it all about himself, with his commonplace reasonin and his hysterical interpretation.
nikko says
OMG, You are so right, I can’t stand Santoro. Someone died, but “look at me”. I don’t watch anything he does and his own website is the biggest joke.
Eric says
My thoughts go out to Alexander’s family and friends during what has now become a tragic holiday season.
Guys, he was 33. He had a full life ahead of him. He was entirely to young to do something like this.
If you or someone you know is considering this as an option, THERE IS HELP.
Call the National Suicide Prevention Helpline: 1-800-273-8255.
They’re available 24/7 to listen to you. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. YOU ARE LOVED.
Josh in OR says
Sad, but more evidence that gay-for-pay is terrible fucking business, and messes with guys heads. STOP FETISHIZING STRAIGHT MEN, guys!!!
Eric says
So was he straight that means he was all messed up. if that was true. I for one always hated this gay for pay crap
Boyeur says
This is so very upsetting and sad. Alexander, if you could have only asked for help. You were worth it. We all are. Depression is a disease of the brain and it can be fought, with prescriptions and therapy. I have beaten a few episodes thanks to able and caring professionals. People should not think they have to suffer alone. Be OUT about your mental health – there is nothing to be ashamed of. Depression is NOT weakness, it is illness.
P.S. I am not convinced that associating this with gay-for-pay is fair or correct. I cannot say that it is not involved in individual cases, but generalizing is possibly dangerous.
E says
Was he straight? Personally I prefer to not label adult performers in gay films as gay as unless they make it explicitly clear that they are. That being said, I do not believe that the ones calling themselves straight, are straight in the traditional sense of the word; otherwise it’s extremely unlikely that they would be capable of doing the job that they do for extended periods. I believe the ones who are traditionally straight, are the plethora of the short-lived “solo-only” features you can find on many sites.
I do believe that the recent shifts in what is considered “straight” is positive movement towards a world where labels are immaterial, and all paths are embraced as equally “human”; and I think many of the “straight” adult performers in gay features would fall under this “new straightness”. Where the label is a suggestive guide, based on it’s current definition, but not a restrictive ruleset that cannot expand or grow.
I think things boil down to the fact that being gay or having gay sex (on and/or off camera, regardless of motive) is still stigmatized. And that stigma encourages people who do work in the industry, even award-winning performers to “identify” as straight despite that fact.
I think if you combine that with a grave misunderstanding of human sexuality and attraction by the masses–specifically, the separation/mutual independence between romantic and sexual attraction–and by extension, the lack of “endorsed labels” to support/validate the entire spectrum of possibilities, you end up with results like these:
Where people may have mixed feelings about themselves based on a misunderstanding of what the human experience is “supposed to be”; Fighting an internal conflict of “do I follow my heart” or “do I follow expectation”. Many choose the path of least resistance; conformity and expectation… at the expense of self-actualization, inner-peace, and freedom. I believe that the very lack of feeling “like themselves” gets the better of them–as it eventually does for anyone–, and they decide it would be better to not exist, than to be forced to exist as someone other than themselves… or they decide to exist true to themselves, but at the cost of the general immunity from public and private scrutiny that so many of us take for granted every single day–which also would eat away at one’s happiness given enough time.
I believe we as a species haven’t truly progressed beyond the existing status quo. The “progress” we’ve made, while appreciated, are only superficial corrections/counterbalances to behaviors and actions, not changes of “hearts and minds.”
This man’s death as well as others like his, I believe, are evidence to that fact.