Look what I just found at Cristiano’s blog! My favorite Porn Couple Francesco D’Macho and Damien Crosse pronounced their vows at a lovely country house just outside Madrid! Watch more photos and read more detail of this wedding at his “My first big gay wedding” blog post. You can also spot some “familiar faces” there.
Gay porn star Orlando Torro and Pedro Andreas … next porn couple!?
From left: Hot House Exclusive gay porn star Paul Wagner, Ross Hurston, Pedro Andreas and Orlando Torro
Isn’t that Adriano Toledo aka Young FDM?
CONGRATULATION TO THE NEWLYWED!
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24 May 09
2:16 pm
This is why we will never have truly gay marriages even if the law permits it.
I don’t mean to be a hateful cunt… but is this a serious relationship? Both are performers and have sex with other people.
It kind of defeats the purpose of marriage in the first place.
These ‘arrangements’ dilute the meaning of marriage.
To any irate at reading this: I will clarify, I apply this standard to other straight couples with open relationships.
Tyler Saint is another performer. He has a profile on Bigmuscle.com and under his relationship status on his profile it reads “ask me”. It went from open relationship to just ‘ask me’ and I assume it is because no body wanted to get involved with him under the assumption that it was a mere hookup.
Now, I will be a hateful cunt: Damien Crosse could find someone better that f’ugly Francesco.
24 May 09
2:19 pm
I think this is where I’m a little different then the norm.
Marriage is a sacrament from the church.
The state recognizes this. Which in my opinion is a problem.
There should be separation between state and church!
Civil Unions should be for everyone.
24 May 09
4:08 pm
Actually, Tyler Saint married his long-time partner when gay marriage was briefly legal in California. And I have to say, who are you to say what the purpose of marriage is? There are plenty of people with open marriages who have sustained their relationship for years, decades even. It’s not impossible. With this kind of skepticism about gay men getting married, it plays right into the Christian Right mindset that gay men are sex-crazed fiends who would destroy the sanctity of marriage as an institution. In fact, your statement, “These ‘arrangements’ dilute the meaning of marriage,” sounds like something Rev. Phelps, Sarah Palin, or Rush Limbaugh would say.
24 May 09
6:47 pm
Since you brought up *church*, ohboy, did you forget about the Mormons??
Marriage is not a sacrament from the church. Before that it used to be instrument of family to combine wealth or expands their influences.
Marriage happens in other countries that do not have churches too, you know.
25 May 09
1:12 am
I well aware of these facts. Yes, people have open relationships. Yes, marriage itself has been an ‘institution’ without religion.
sex-crazed fiends.. yes, we should have gays shout that from the mountain tops! I don’t have a problem with that view, yes I enjoy sex!
To think that any gay man would take their marriages seriously is the question I ask. What is the point of being married if the following don’t apply:
a. those individuals are not interested in a starting a family.
b. those individuals are not interested in commitment.
c. sex isn’t really a connection between the the two partners.
Not that any of these things are wrong if the person wants them. But who are we kidding here, if they want to be married. Again, what is the point?
It just seems more to be about a ‘look at me mentality’ or for some kind of validation. Or just going through the motions for appearance.
I’m more of a romantic, which is my point.
Romance is lacking in a lot of these relationships.
If you like to fuck around, that is perfectly fine. But don’t be an asshole when you drag another person along because your afraid to be alone.
25 May 09
1:16 am
long-time partner – you mean, ‘codependent’
25 May 09
2:06 am
This is old news but what happened to F. Sagat and F. D’Macho not that long ago? According to their blogs at the time, it was like ‘love of their lives…’.
Another point, gay marriage is legal in Spain but not in Italy (where D’Macho is from) or USA (where Crosse is from). So their legal status is kind of in limbo. Neither of them can be naturalized in their partner’s home country. I guess nor would they need to file for divorce (god forbids) as they could simply go their separate ways or back to their home country???
25 May 09
3:49 am
First off, you don’t know whether the a. b. c. apply to the married couple in the post.
Even the straight porn couple do have the same dilemma when they got married. Robert Van Damme have got a twin daughters so he might be or still be married. Ricky Sinz, who has a baby coming along, has a girlfriend who turned on by him fucking with other hot men.
Like what Casey said, monogamous isn’t the only way to make the marriage work. Again remember the Mormons?
You only *think* that they lack what necessary to make their Marriage works. And I think it’s uncalled for.
25 May 09
2:54 pm
Damien is welcome to him. I met Francesco in Melbourne about 18 months ago, and was less than charmed by the guy. Then I read his blog and that sealed it for me. Charmless.
25 May 09
8:36 pm
my points are still relevant. I’m not talking about religion so to speak. I’m talking about relationships.
I guess my point is sex and/or love shouldn’t be oppressive, you shouldn’t feel obligation to be with a person(if your not really interested in)just because your too chickenshit to be by yourself.
If you want to fuck around, that is fine, but don’t confuse matters when you marry someone because you want to have it both ways.
25 May 09
8:38 pm
“what happened to F. Sagat and F. D’Macho not that long ago? According to their blogs at the time, it was like ‘love of their lives…’.”
I guess people are confusing sex with love.
That is what the problem is for most people. Sex can be good, and it doesn’t necessarily mean love.
Obviously, these two don’t know what love is.
25 May 09
9:03 pm
They met at the Grabby’s where both of them were drunk…love at first sight huh?
Then Damine said that the most romatic thing was when Francesco has pissed in his ass while having sex…
maybe there is a problem with me, but is this love?
25 May 09
11:30 pm
“They met at the Grabby’s where both of them were drunk…love at first sight huh?
Then Damien said that the most romantic thing was when Francesco has pissed in his ass while having sex…
maybe there is a problem with me, but is this love?” — Exactly what I mean, David. They are diluting the point of marriage. They have a limited understanding of themselves and what love is.
like I said, I don’t take this relationship seriously.
they both are codependent.
“First off, you don’t know whether the a. b. c. apply to the married couple in the post.” – This is true. However, these are just a few practical reasons why they would want to be married. The first and foremost would be love. But sometimes people don’t marry for love, which is why I mentioned a.b.and c.
“Even the straight porn couple do have the same dilemma when they got married.” – Absolutely, why I said in an earlier post I apply these standards to all couples, straight or not.
26 May 09
5:58 am
Unless you have intimate knowledge of Francesco and Crosse’s marriage (and the only way to know that would to either BE Francesco or Crosse) then you cannot make a sound judgement on whether they’re in “love” or whether their marriage is one of codependence.
How do you know that they’re not in love? Cause’ they’re porn stars? How does that stop them from being able to fall in love? I hope you’re aware that the world does not revolve around your understanding of it’s many facets. Their love may be very different from the love you might experience. SO WHAT?
Even if they’re not in love. People marry for a variety of reasons, it doesn’t mean they dilute the validity of marriage as an institution. Sidenote, who are you to decide which marriage is “pure” and which is not?
What is wrong with finding a person to make you feel a little less lonely as you go through life?
26 May 09
2:47 pm
“What is wrong with finding a person to make you feel a little less lonely as you go through life?”
lonely… I don’t think a relationship can cure that feeling. If your married and in a relationship because your still going to feel lonely, because you don’t have the ability to connect or have intimacy on any level; then that is the source of the problem – the feelings of loneliness and isolation are fueling bad decisions.
This is issue transcends any kind of relationship open or not.
It seems very soon after they ‘fell in love’ that they got married. See David @ 9:03.
As soon as the sex turns routine and usual they will dump each other, Leonard.
I think certain switches have to be turned off, and you need to make yourself numb to perform. This becomes a problem when you decide to ’settle down’.
26 May 09
3:14 pm
I know both Francesco and Damien very well and they are both very much in love. Anyone who has seen them together knows it very well. It seems that you puritanical people, who are on a porn blog for some strange reason, don’t seem to understand that a relationship is not based on sex. It is based on love, respect and honesty. This is what their marriage is based on. The truth is that you can’t see people who do porn as real people. But get this, they are real people. They are able to love and be happy, while you people are left with nothing except being alone with your dick in your hand while you jerk off to them.
And Chico Tanto: Where have you been? They don’t live in their fascist home countries, they live in Spain, a country which gives ALL its citizens equal rights. So, yes their marriage is legal is Spain. Because Francesco belongs to the EU and has Spanish residency he has the rights to marry anyone just like any other Spaniard does. Viva Espana!
26 May 09
4:47 pm
Historically puritans believe it or not, were very sexual and open about it. Lots of the time, when the husband left to the new world they started a new families because they were horny and alone in the colonies. They dumped their families in England because it was easier to start a new one in the new world. Frequently, pregnancies occurred out of wedlock; even though the belief system prohibited it, they were in the new world and acted according to what was required to survive.
So your jab is very cliche’ and is historically inaccurate. A lot of puritans were not frigid and cold – and neither am I.
Just because your in a social circle with those two doesn’t mean your capable to speak for them – no one knows every aspect of a ‘friend’, ‘coworker’, ‘acquaintance’, ‘lover’, or a family member’s life. That individual might give you a persona suited to the type of relationship you have. Every human being does this. Stop idealizing them.
“The truth is that you can’t see people who do porn as real people.”
Actually, I am and that is the point of the posts. I’m taking them out of the context of porn stars and looking at them on a human level.
“don’t seem to understand that a relationship is not based on sex.” – well, that isn’t entirely true. Sex is an important part of a relationship and is an indicator the problems within a relationship.
“They are able to love and be happy, while you people are left with nothing except being alone with your dick in your hand while you jerk off to them.” – and I’m sure you never jerked off before in your life, and not to either one of those two your so interested in defending.(This is sarcasm for your info)
“They don’t live in their fascist home countries, they live in Spain, a country which gives ALL its citizens equal rights.” – Wow, where do I begin on that one. Spain is not the paradigm of equality, especially when you have a monarchy. Which also your queen has openly said a few anti-gay remarks.+++++++++++++++++++++++
See link: http://www.towleroad.com/2008/10/spains-gays-and.html
++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
“Viva Espana!” – Yes, lets root for Spaniards- which the countries political and cultural history doesn’t paint a very nice picture of them.
And don’t retort with – your racist! no I’m not, and your obviously having a difficult time questioning who these people are because it contradicts your ideal of them.
26 May 09
4:50 pm
he he heh
26 May 09
6:00 pm
Okay, so I have not known Francesco or Damien for that long (a couple of years) but I was honored to be invited to their wedding. I am the woman in the white dress standing in between Adriano and Damien. You had to be there to see how in love they are. They are truly, deeply in love. I have seen them before this as well and they are just dead gone on each other. Francesco cried during the ceremony. I will post photographs when I return after May 30th from Spain. Their families were there and so loving and the whole ceremony was so emotional. How could anybody refuse to let same sex couples like this marry??? Just because they are porn stars, don’t forget that they are people too with families and lives. Viva Espana!!!
Fair View Sue
26 May 09
6:58 pm
ohboynotagain: Yes, i know my history very well, puritans were indeed hypocritical and that’s exactly my point…just like american culture in general is hypocritcal…as well as the most religious country of the “1st world” countries.
spain, is not a monarchy, it is a socialist democracy. the monarchy is symbolic and doesn’t have any real power. you said it yourself, the queen has made anti-gay remarks…has that changed the laws of spain? no. you are the one that has to brush up on their knowledge. spain doesn’t have a pretty history? no country does, it’s called progression.
and why are you so obsessed with other people’s marriages? especially one’s performed in countries foreign to you.
continue living in your bitterness. you’re sad.
26 May 09
7:45 pm
Your limiting American culture to a small sect of religious order in its precolonial days… when in reality it is the most diverse groups of individuals in the country.
Since your such an expert on hypocrisy:
Answer this, isn’t it hypocritical to be in a marriage and have sex outside of the relationship based on monogamy?
You keep thinking I’m talking about gay marriage, I’m talking about marriage in particular.
I don’t think ‘progression’ exists. Your own nationalist attitude reflects this: “just like American culture in general is hypocritical” Your statement implies your belief of superiority for singling out just American hypocrisy when your own culture is just as flawed. This vomitous attitude is in all countries…even contributes to a lot of bigotry – holocaust, WWII? Yes, viva Espana. LOL
So what is the point of having the monarchy if it is just a “symbol”?
Spain’s monarch is its head of state and therefore its representative abroad. Even if it is just a ‘’symbol” it doesn’t really undermine my point about your queens comments. She essentially is speaking as your countries ‘’symbol”
In fact your still not making any comments on the relationship, and now is directed toward me as insults as a way to get me upset. It is not working, in fact your only undermining yourself as creditable to be discussing this.
Your obviously upset because I challenged your image of your ”friends”. Your being too defensive to be clear headed about this.
26 May 09
7:56 pm
“Just because they are porn stars, don’t forget that they are people too with families and lives.”
So they should enter into a relationship for the benefit of making their families comfortable- no excuse me, ‘happy’.
That seems kind of empty… maybe they should stop being in porn to make them happy.
26 May 09
7:59 pm
“Your limiting American culture to a small sect of religious order in its precolonial days… when in reality it is the most diverse groups of individuals in the country.”
So I have a question, since your so focused in this aspect of “American” history – what qualifies as its history? Does it start at the point in time? Does it begin with Native American culture? Or with the Vikings who WERE the first to discover it LONG before anyone?
You obviously looking at it through a European bias.
26 May 09
8:42 pm
Im an American and all I can say to you is YAWN. Happy jerking. Viva Espana. GFY
26 May 09
8:43 pm
They look so happy!!!!!!
26 May 09
9:28 pm
GFY – Go Fuck Yourself?
lol
a year, tops.
27 May 09
12:16 am
“Happy jerking”
You and masturbation jabs. What? like you’ve never masturbated before.
Everybody shits, pisses, and maturates (at least once)
Even sexually underdeveloped toddlers play with themselves. So I don’t buy it when someone claims they never.
So its very juvenile to be commenting on my masturbation habits, as if you don’t have any.
27 May 09
10:13 am
i thought damian cross was straight. or are those guys on broke str8 guys actually gay and not str8. is there no truth in advertising?
27 May 09
2:55 pm
Wow the rain of positive comments….lol! At some point you might want to understand that as porn actors they are meant to make sex preponderant when they talk about their relationships in the public eye ,I don’t think anyone would be interested in knowing about the flowers they last bought for each other… knowing that Damien loves to get pissed in the ass is way more interesting for us wankers , let’s face it.
27 May 09
7:02 pm
“Wow the rain of positive comments….lol!” – Some people can’t handle asking questions.
“might want to understand that as porn actors they are meant to make sex preponderant when they talk about their relationships in the public eye” – true, to some degree
So you might establish by that statement this ‘marriage’ is press op and photos an attempt to merely to fight the stereotypes they actively reinforce because of their career choices…
what is the point of this marriage, if it is not about the promise to single out others for the sake of their own relationship?
Again what is the point of marriage when your not into monogamy?
Even open relationships work within established rules by the couple… like no kissing, only top, and only with a condom. So again, what is the point to single out this relationship as special from other open relationships that don’t have some silly ceremony commemorating it. Especially when both groups do love each other regardless of the certificate.
So what is the point of this ‘marriage’? Again, goes back to the monogamy question?
Now, if a couple is a monogamous relationship and in fact both aren’t married to each other (like goldie hawn and kurt russel) – I would take them more seriously then these two.
27 May 09
7:06 pm
“It is based on love, respect and honesty.” – Yes, but human nature trumps those qualities any day. I’m sure some fine piece of ass’ that has a better connection would easily make the either husband jealous. When you spend more time outside of a relationship your in pursing others, then really what is the point of the relationship?
29 May 09
8:43 am
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06 Aug 09
11:47 am
Wow, how could someone else’s marriage bring out such vehemence is beyond me. And so little of the info people post here is valid. All I can add is: good for them. I hope they are happy!
06 Aug 09
1:51 pm
Beautiful wedding. But it does occur to me that apparently you don’t have to be handsome or have a great body to be in porno. A lot of thse guys are not hot.
07 Aug 09
1:40 pm
Funny how every actor in a porno is now considered a “star.” Even in porno, ther are only a handful of stars. These guys-and I wish them well-are not stars.