It’s the end of the year and according to tragic news I recently found on various porn blogs in just a couple of days, it’s also the end of two porn performers’ life, one porn site closes its door, (at least) two porn couples break up and one car accident.
1. Gay Porn Star Dustin Michaels Chokes To Death In Police Custody
Gay Porn Blog reports this news: We’re sad to note that porn star Dustin Michaels (given name Andrew Grande) died in police custody this weekend while allegedly attempting to swallow a bag of weed. [warning] You can watch disturbing video of this event at Toleroad blog.
Police had responded to a domestic disturbance call at his home in Panama City, FL. While attempting to handcuff him, Michaels swallowed the baggie and began choking. The police tasered him before administering the Heimlich Maneuver. A camera crew from Tru TV happened to filming the incident for a COPS-style reality TV show.
Dustin Michaels worked with various amateur sites like ON THE HUNT, Naked Kombat and Bound Gods. He also starred in Raging Stallion’s new movie Southern Pride: Boys In Heat , Vegas Fuckfest 2009 and Snow Trip 9: Lake Tahoe.
His friend, Giovanni Summers posted this tribute video on his blog.
2. RIP: Performer Todd Welch
I found another sad news on Gay Porn Times: We have more sad news to report this morning. Performer Todd Welch has died following a battle with “an aggressive and rare form of lymphoma,” said FabScout Entertainment’s Howard Andrew, who informed the adult industry of the news over the weekend. Mr. Welch filmed for several web studios and had shot roughly half a dozen DVDs since 2007: ENDLESS CRUSH for Falcon Studios, TOP DAWGS for FPG Entertainment, and several titles for Lucas Entertainment, including WELCOME TO PARADISE and FEET!, released earlier this year.
3. Amateur Straight Guys closing down production
Thanks to my favorite reader, Nobra Jones who send this news to me: Doug and Jay’s Amateur Straight Guys….a long time running amateur site where actors like Marcus Blue and Devin Draz (as Spence) got their start is shuttering…or closing down production. There’s a heartfelt letter posted on the website.
+ Watch Amateur Straight Guys Videos
4. The Curse of ‘Porn Stars in Love’
The Sword reports the sad and shocking break-up of Damien Crosse & Francesco D’Macho. Tristan Jaxx also announces on his blog, Tristan Jaxx and his husband, Tristan Phoenix had to part ways.
They all starred in Raging Stallion’s PORN STARS IN LOVE.
5. Raging Stallion Models Involved In Weekend Car Accident
From Scotty B of Nick Young XXX: Let’s start this article off by saying EVERYONE IS OKAY! Raging Stallion Exclusive Angelo Marconi and Cole Streets were involved in a non-injury car accident after leaving MJ’s bar in Silverlake, California which they were attending to promote their new Raging Stallion Release Focus/ReFocus. [T-ball has photos of this event: Focus/Refocus Party at MJ’s]
Even though Angelo Marconi was the designated driver he lost control of his brand new car because of the slick rained-out streets of Los Angeles, spinning out hitting a parked car. Marconi spoke exclusively with me, Scotty B, and he said that he’s extremely happy that both him and Cole Streets walked away from the accident unscathed and is now on a mission to get a new car.
6. Jakub Stefano got a knee surgery
From Jakub Stefano’s blog: Today noon i had my knee surgery it went fine i got my meniscous issues fixed… when i woke up they showed me how they did it cuz i had this small camera in my knee so i see how they took out bad parts of meniscous and put some liquid there…
Bit worst new is that they discover i had also old injury with cross ligament it was teared too. So if i want to play basketball in future i will need get plastic surgery of this ligament…
For now im doing good my knee feels good and it don’t hurt so much so im quite happy it went all ok
thanks for support
Peter says
“The sad and shocking break-up of Damien Crosee & Francesco D’Marcho,” are you kidding or being facetious? I loved seeing the pictures you posted of their wedding but how the hell anyone could have imagined that those two ciuld have lasted longer than the bubbles remain in a glass of cheap champagne amazes me. Just one question, do I get my wedding gift back?
Cee says
I don’t mean to laugh, but I was just saying the other day how Damien and Francesco were not going to last. This is not a shocker, at least not to me. I don’t even know what to say about this Andrew Grande person. Not too bright. RIP anyway. And RIP Todd.
Daniel says
Just a few more examples of how working in porno is not a good lifestyle. I love porno and watch it everyday but actually doing it must be so destructive to the psyche. (* Once again I recommend reading Erik Rhodes’ blog UNDERNEATH IT ALL.) His last two entires are particularly unnerving. Sad, really very, very sad.)
robert says
relationships between porn stars rarely last
Anders says
Who in their right mind would even entertain dating a “porn star” let alone having a relationship with one? Hot, yeah sure thing, but talk about the lowest common denominator.
Pariah says
Panama City’s local channels are in my viewing area – I’m in Destin, Fl.- and they have made no mention of his “adult movie background” which I found odd. If he had been a female then they would be showing clips and the headlines would read “porn actress chokes to death” or some such lurid title.
As for Eric Rhodes blog, I agree it is sad. I feel sorry for him but first of all you can’t go into therapy and not tell you doctor what the biggest issue of all your issues is – you are a pornstar. Second, and this is why he can’t be happy, Eric is obviously a narcisistic personality with a need for attention and a self destructive streak which is very complicated. Anyone who wants to have a realtionship with him will have to deal with periods of exteme neediness followed by times of elevated self importance. He is likely to tell the focus of his attention how much he needs them/loves them/can’t live without them for a few days and then wildly swing to the other extreme and follow it by acting like the king of all he sees for the next week. His life is further complicated by his porn lifestyle and admitted drug use.
I feel sorry for him but a therapist can’t help if you aren’t honest; even if they know the truth, they have to rely on the patient to openly discuss it.
Kevin says
If I can’t believe in the permanence and depth of the relationship between porn actors like Damien Crosse and Francesco D’Macho, what is there left to believe in? Oh, thanks for the 411 on Erik Rhodes’ blog. Wow, what a fucked up human being. Yes, seek help, Erik, soon. Good luck.
Marco says
Damn it! And I had my heart set on marrying a porn star. (Better yet if he was a hustler on the side.)
Gigolo says
Their “marriage” was a publicity stunt people. Did no one realize that they had their web sites to promote? Damien and Francesco have played a lot of people into thinking “porn love” is real and therefore make you all buy into the fantasy and their products.
Erik…just shoot yourself
Tom says
Yeah, cool, my marriage was a publicity stunt as well. Just curious, I know Erik Rhodes is messed up but why do guys hate him so much?
David says
Sad news about sad guys making a sad living in an industry that’s in a sad state. We all know how messed up those are who do porn and this pretty much sums it up!
Rich says
Without wanting to come across a hard arse, I would have thought “fucked up” would have been more appropriate than sad to describe the industry and those in it.
Xavier Mathews says
(LMAO) @Gigolo At The Erik comment! That was kind hash sad and mean but in all honesty I to am tired of hearing about it. Dude needs to get help. This is why I am so confotable at Corbin Fisher and RandyBlue those guys don’t go through all this bull shit they do their job and live their life. And have fun!!!! I don’t know all their personal lifes but a few I do. As for Damien and his man. I hear about the wedding. . . hear it was decent. . . never really thought they would break up because they kept everything in their lives kinda “Low-Key” I hope Dawson Riley and Josh Griffin Marry! That will be interesting! ALSO Not everyone who does porn has a fucked up life, most are very successful and happy and are living the American dream! And yeah I would date and Marry a porn star esp if he is coming from Randyblue or Corbinfisher and has everything want in a man and makes me happy!
Terence says
@Xavier….marry a porn star (btw they aren’t stars and never will be, they are just performers and 5 minte wonders!) Hmmmm let’s see, a husband who gets fucked for a living by anyone and thing, has it out there for all the world to see and probably escorts to supplement his income and addiction to drugs and/or roids. Yip, the perfect partner to take home to meet the folks for Xmas. Now where can I find one of them? Duh silly me, any gay bar in Weho, San Diego or SF! and let’s not for Rentboy!
jboy says
Of course we always hear about the couples and porn stars who are messed up and don’t last. They may not represent the whole and only be a fraction, so it’s not a good statistic. Porn is showbiz, so just like movie and TV celebs, some are a mess and others aren’t.
Adam says
I even commented on this site a long time ago when the Porn Stars In Love was reported how half of the couples wouldn’t even last. It’s too obvious that someone who has a career like this would not really be able to handle a relationship.
PumpsterJoe says
maybe now i can marry damien crosse.
Jake says
@PumpsterJoe, I fuckin’ love you guy! Hope I get an invite to your nuptials with Damien. Hey, maybe all the groomsmen-or wedding guests-could fuck him and give him a cum facial which, of course, could be video-tapped and aired on StagHomme!
Patrick says
@Xavier, “never thought they would break up because they kept everything in their lives kinda low-key?” LMAO! Are you fucking kidding me? StagHomme isn’t really the definiton of low key. Low key is NOT having your husband-or you yourself-get fucked by dozens of anonymous guys and filming it.
Dan says
@Tom: I don’t think (at least I hope) most guy hate Erik Rhodes. People find him tiresome, and there is certainly a well-deserved element of annoyance because of frequent “I hate fags” remarks on his blog, when every dollar he’s earned, whether as an escort or in porn, he’s gotten from a gay man. (Oh, and you can bet he’s reading these posts; he follows what’s written about him on the blogs with the same commitment that Dina Lohan follows what’s written about Lindsay. And @Xavier: I would have to disagree about Francesco and Damien keeping their life low-key. I don’t even go out of my way to follow them (tho I think they’re hot) and I seem to know all about them. Kind of like Jon Gosselin.
Erik says
I’ve dated a porn actor, yes, they are NOT stars, and it, and he, were pretty messed up. So were his “buddies” the other porn actors I met. All in all, a really sad bunch, but I did enjoy the sex.
Jeff says
Damien Crosse is one of the best looking men in porn and his ex husband is one of the ugliest ( have you noticed his eyes? … so ugly) so their breaking up doesn’t surprise me
Jake says
Yeah, Francesco D’Macho is pretty unattractive, and Italians are usually so hot! Love is blind they say. Oh, if Erik Rhodes is reading this blog as someone mentioned he might, what’s up from Chelsea in Manhattan, Erik. 🙂 Keep the faith, dude. But, um, after getting fisted by Francois Sagat (bottoms fisting other bottoms? Why, Erik?) maybe you have reached the depths of porndom. Leave ’em wanting more. Well, maybe too late for that but you get the idea.
thraceguy says
a guy died, who knows what path it took for him to be in porn, smoke dope, but he died.
Someone should say, I will miss you, even though I never knew you.
We all have crossroads, his life took him one way, tragic end.
Chico Tanto says
my simple theory of the break-up: both are ‘very’ bottoms (at least from the porn work) and the relation is not going to last long with 2 bottoms. simple as that.
brian says
I’m really very sad with all these news… God bless Dustin Michaels and Todd Welch…
eric says
I’d like to date a porn star and then change him…
Luca says
Yes, Chico Tanto is probably on to something. I’m a bottom and I invariably fall for other bottoms (why are the bottoms always so hot?) and it never works out in the end.
kevin says
you hypocrites…relationships in themselves hardly last..how many are you guys with the person you were first in love with…or even 2nd…please…stop judging the industry as the killer of relationships…maybe you dont know all that’s going on in there. look at tiger…he wasnt doing porn and look at him. please.
ricky says
cocks slide down throats. pot in baggies do not. dustin used to be on broke str8 boys. i reviewed all the clips i have of him and there is nothing there to indicate he was str8.
ricky says
dustin was not only a pot smoker but from pictures i have seen of him with a large pile of weed a dealer. hence the reason he tried to swallow the evidence.
ricky says
i knew damien and francesco wouldn’t last when i saw damien getting fucked by another guy in one of their new clips.
David Reardon says
OMG I have only just now (09/25/15) found out that Dustin Michaels (Andrew Grande) is dead!
RIP Andrew. You were hot and one of my favourites. And to those who slag off guys (and girls) in porn – GROW UP!