I like the exclusive interview of rising porn star Colt Rivers done by one of my collaborators, Patrick Sands. Here’s Part 1 and Part 2 & 3 (which reveals his past as a director for one of Backstreet Boys’ music videos).
Today I have another article by Patrick Sands. This time it’s an interview with Brent Everett and Steve Pena. Congratulation to Steve who recently won “Best Personality” at Cybersocket Awards 2014.
Patrick Sands: Brent Everett has been one of gay porn’s biggest megastars for a long time (he never fucking ages, NEVER!) but his hubby and manager Steve Pena has his own following of devoted and loyal fans.
When I had the chance to chat with the guys, I found there was so much to talk about with these sex gods that I may need to keep going back to them over and over and over again.
Patrick: Thank you for taking the time to do this interview. The fans at QueerMeNow are going to love it.
Patrick: First, you guys took advantage of gay marriage at a very early stage. With all of the controversy, changes, anger, politics, relationship definitions, there is one thing I think it’s safe to say all of your fans want to know, and I’m going to bravely ask it on their behalf. Remember, you said no topics were off the table! Here goes:
How the hell did the two of end up wearing white at your wedding?
Steve: HAHAHAHA! We both decided on it. We weren’t virgins, that’s for sure, but we got married when gay married was still virgin territory. White also looked so much sexier and clean.
Patrick: Were there at least harnesses or cockrings underneath?
Steve: No, but we did have a long crazy night using cockrings, Viagra, alcohol and other toys! 🙂
Patrick: We will expect photos to be leaked eventually. Brent, what is the secret to staying so popular for so long?
Brent: Being personable and very interactive with my fan base. I have the most loyal and amazing fans ever!! I LOVE THEM ALL!! They keep me going and I mean that. I wouldn’t be where I am without them.
Patrick: Steve, the same question from your perspective. How has the Brent Everett image remained so consistently popular?
Steve: The Internet and social media make it possible. Twitter, Facebook, blogging and Tumblr keep Brent, his image and his brand at the forefront everywhere. With that much of Brent out there, we can travel the world doing club and pride events and thank his fans personally, face-to-face, which is what we love to do more than anything else.
Patrick: More than anything else? More than sex? Or is “face-to-face” code for that?
Steve: Well, if you’re going to fuck… I mean thank someone… it’s always better to do it with their legs in the air 🙂 Face-to-Face 🙂
Patrick: How did you guys develop the Brent Everett brand?
Steve: Brent’s tattoo, hair, face and body could do it all, but the key is that he has the amazing PERSONALITY. Brent is so much more than his big dick. He’s such a sweetheart and kind loving person. Anyone who’s ever met him will tell you the same. He’s such an awesome performer, both in bed and on stage. He will leave you with a good taste in your mouth 😉 He’s won all the awards you can win for porn. I’m so proud of him!
Patrick: Wait, wait, hold on! Rewind to the good taste Brent leaves in people’s mouths. Brent, tell me about that in detail!
Brent: LOL! Well, it starts by eating pineapple on a daily basis. You want your jizz to taste good? Eat pineapple! Believe me… it works!
Patrick: I trust you on that one! Other than Dina Lohan or Kris Jenner, most managers stay safely behind the scenes, but Steve, your personality (and sexy self) make that impossible. Was being in public almost naked an intentional choice or did it just kind of happen?
Steve: It just kind of happened. And you can thank Brent for that. I’m kind of hands-on when I work, so when Brent asked me to manage and do PR for him, I became even more hands-on. I was already a promoter in San Diego with my military club events. I just decided to mesh the events and Brent’s public performances together. Use what I know for promotion and use it for the porn business. It’s worked very well and nothing sells better than sex. So I didn’t mind using my image or body to help promote him on stage or in shows.
Patrick: Thank you very much, Brent, for making that happen! What was it like to watch Steve become so well known?
Brent: I’m so happy for him and I love the monster I created, LOL. Can we make his ego any bigger? He can barely fit in his shirt, LOL. I love him to death. We are a team and Steve’s such a loyal and great husband. He puts up with so much. I love that he’s there for me and I’m happy fans know it as well. I couldn’t be happier.
Patrick: Very funny, Steve’s “ego” bursting through his clothing. That might be the only thing we haven’t seen bursting through his clothing! Brent, you have a lot of experience with that. How do you find underwear to fit your dick? It must be tough because in every picture, it’s sticking out.
Brent: That’s sort of the point! I like when my shit busts out of the undies or clothes. If I’m turned on, I want you to know it! I want my fans to see every inch of how happy they make me. 🙂
Patrick: More cock talk. Brent, what happens when you come across an ass so tight that it won’t let you in? On film, it looks like you push through it and the bottoms love it. Steve, what was it like the first time you got to use it? I know, that’s a personal question, you can whisper the answer in my ear if you want.
Brent: The boys I’m fucking already know what they’re about to get. If they didn’t prepare for my manmeat, that’s on them! LOL! I’ll be gentle sometimes, but when I’m in the mood to FUCK it’s going DOWN and I’ll be tearing that boy a new one!
Steve: LOTS of LUBE and POPPERS! But once you have it in and gone a few strokes it’s on! Then if he goes rough, I flip-fuck him and give him a taste of what he gave me. FUCK THAT he’s gonna get a taste too!
Patrick: No problem with personal questions, I see! Steve, the selfies. Selfie Steve. Such a cock tease! The sexiest lips on the planet, right? Selfishly, can I ask you to take more ass-in-undies selfies? Nothing that will offend the cranks on Facebook.
Steve: Facebook is full of cranks! I put up a pic of my ass even in underwear, it gets taken down!
Patrick: Then more ass on Twitter! Brent, help me out here. Am I wrong about his lips? Are they made for kissing, are they blowjob lips…?
Brent: BOTH!! I love his Latin lips! Steve’s the best kisser ever! He’s passionate or he’s soft and then rough when you want him to be! Steve’s the only boy to ever make me cum without touching myself – with just kissing and dry humping. UGH!!! Ask any boys who’ve had the chance to feel for themselves. They will tell you the same. As for blowjobs, I love them from Steve. He loves to just take his sweet time and worship my meat. I can watch him go at it all day. We have video of it! He can deep-throat like no one’s business.
Patrick: That ought to help a few others cum without touching. For both of you, tell us about how you guys prep for a Brent Everett appearance? Do you tailor each performance to the crowd once you start? How many push-ups and crunches do you do right before going on?
Steve: We like to practice at home or on the road and always tailor it for each city. Sometimes we can get away with anything, depending on the laws, LOL. So if we can show cock we show cock and if we can’t, we show what we can. We like to give it our all. We always try to do the gym before we go out to each club event. And if we can’t, we do push-ups and sit-ups. Brent is lucky though. He’s naturally shredded. LOL!
Patrick: Porn, like any type of film, is not interactive, so does that make the appearances more important? I’ve been to them and the fans go wild!
Steve: YES!!! We love when they have his DVDs or items like FLESHJACKS or pictures printed out for him to sign. Guys come up and Brent always takes pictures/hugs/kisses with each and every fan. Since they took the time to come see him, he takes the time to thank them. I love that about him.
Patrick: Tell us the funniest story about your live performing appearances.
Brent: Well, it’s part funny and part sad. Someone broke into our hotel room in Michigan a few years ago. They took everything! Our iPads, computers, clothes, shoes and camera (with porn on it too). These people were so mean, they even took our douche bottle! I mean really???? Were they such big fans that they needed that? We would have autographed it if they just asked. It’s sad because you can’t replace memories, so we just wanted the video and pictures back.
Patrick: Now tell us about the scariest or most bizarre.
Steve: The scariest was when Brent was denied entry to the USA coming from Winnipeg. Our flight was supposed to go through Calgary and that would have been better, but there was an engine problem so the flight was canceled and we had to fly out the next morning from Chicago. When we went through customs, the problems started. The female immigration agent who was in charge didn’t like the fact we were married. She thought Brent was using it as a way to stay in the USA legally. Remember, this was before the Supreme Court declared DOMA unconstitutional. Same-sex marriage was legal when we got married in California in 2008, before Prop 8. We both cried and it was like a movie, being separated, our family torn apart. Only I could go home and Brent had to stay in Canada. It was the saddest and scariest moment of our lives that we are still trying to fix it with legal help. I hope that Brent will be back in the USA for 2014. It’s been such a long process. I just want our family back.
Patrick: That’s an incredibly sad and shocking story. Maybe a public case like this will help expose prejudice and hatred in situations like this where bigots are in charge. Do you think your careers had anything to do with her decisions?
Steve: I think us being gay and married plus Brent being Canadian had everything to do with it. She was just being a BITCH that day! Almost took joy in seeing us separated.
Patrick: You are human beings first, no matter what else. Tearing apart a family violates rules of humanity. We all hope this is resolved for you soon. While we are being serious, Steve, tell us about the difficulties that stem from your military past? Do you feel like a role model to gay men or women who make the choice to serve?
Steve: I was kicked out for the gay issue and I’m a big advocate of gays serving in the military. I was fighting for it before it was a popular issue and before it was legal to be gay in the military. I’m happy that my military brothers and sisters can now serve openly. I wish I’d had that chance.
Patrick: WAIT!!!! Hold on for a moment I’m interrupting us to ask Steve about his recent Cybersocket Award for Best Personality, Congratulations! Your family is overflowing with awards! What does it mean to you to have won this award?
Steve: Fuck, it means everything!!! I love it and I’m so proud and honored! The Cybersockets are the like Peoples Choice Awards of Porn. I’m also happy that one of my awards can go on the I LOVE ME Wall Brent has created with all his awards and accomplishments. I work really hard for him and our company and I’m glad the fans see and feel it. I love them all.
Patrick: A Cybersocket is so much better than a Peoples Choice Award. You are so much more famous, with a lot more fans, both of you.
Steve: I say this a lot and I’ll say it again, Brent Everett has the best fans in the world. They are so loving and loyal. They are like family to us.
Patrick: So the award is going on the I LOVE ME Wall?
Steve: I’m keeping the award with me in DC, until Brent can join me in the USA. Then it will go with all of his awards when we are back together on his I LOVE ME WALL. It has all his awards and accomplishments. And his dildos and fleshjacks 🙂 Thank you so much for allowing me to be interviewed. Again, I just want to thank the fans who voted and support me and Brent. Without them, we would not be where we are. They all deserve blowjobs from me:-)
Patrick: I’ll just take everyone’s to go.
Patrick: Back to the interview. As I was doing research on you guys, I found that you both have a healthy amount of female fans. What is that like?
Brent: WE LOVE IT!!! We love our loyal female fan base. They’re just like everyone else and keep it interesting.
Patrick: Do you guys ever just want to say, “fuck the gym, pass me a cookie?”
Steve: Brent never goes to the gym. The fucker is naturally cut and built. When he eats more, he gets muscle mass and looks beefy. If he doesn’t eat as much, he’s back to looking like Jock/Twink. He’s lucky!!
Patrick: Oh, please, Selfie Steve, we all drool over you too. Brent is not the only lucky one!
Steve: I can’t live without sugar and carbs! I know I’ll pay the price when I have them, so I just work out harder in the gym. I get angry at myself when craving sweets. They will be the death of me.
Patrick: What is next for you guys? More touring, more movies, more products?
Steve: More touring and shoots and products. Once Brent is back in the USA, we can return the cities that made him who he is. It’s nice to travel around the world, but it sucks that we can’t visit cities and friends in the USA. That’s our main goal.
Patrick: Any last words for your fans?
Brent and Steve: We just want to thank each and every one of them for all their support all these years. Without them, we wouldn’t be where we are! We love them!! Each deserves a kiss and blowjob! But let’s just go with a kiss each for now!!
Gman says
Wow he (Steve) went through that whole interview and never mentioned the so called boyfriend in DC? The same so called boyfriend that was in the video with Steve Grand.
I guess there might have been some questions they were unwilling to answer?
Personally I wish them the best and hope that this emigration issue is resolved sooner rather than later.
I just wonder where Steve’s boyfriend factors in the relationship once that happens.
The story of Steve’s boyfriend has been a subject several times on twitter, and other blogs and frankly Steve should have addressed it to put those people that have the impression that this marriage is over to rest by saying his first priority is to Brent and Brent alone.
I know when I first saw the “I love you” comments back and forth with his so called BF had me wondering what was going on. Then again it might be just one of those things where Steve is trying to keep his name relevant.
I personally hope that all parties are happy when Brent is allowed back in the states. Time will tell if that really happens.
Jake Biondi says
Great interview — and two great guys.
I want them to collaborate with me on BOYSTOWN!
sxg says
I cannot believe you didn’t ask them about Jayson Smith, the third one in this relationship!
Also, a bit disappointed that they use poppers. I think they’re totally unnecessary and aren’t they an actual danger to your health?
CM says
If they’re in an open relationship, all to them, but they act like they’re still married and happy which just reeks of BS. What’s the point of marriage if you’re going to open it up? The only reason why they pretend to be married is so they can rake up the money for their website and reap the tax benefits, and they should just admit it.
Steve and Jayson are known pretty well here in DC, and they are allll over each other in public, not to mention Jayson gets so hilariously defensive when people ask him about his relationship with a married man. That and Steve seems to only visit Brent once every six months, which if you’re married to a man who can’t enter the country, then you should be visiting him much more often, not shacking up with another guy.
yeah I’m a big mean queen about this, but the fact that we just got the rights to marry and these three guys are just shitting all over it is just sad.
Zach says
LIke the others,I have to call foul on this interview.
The reason Brent is still having immigration issues is because his husband is carrying on with another man and even an INS agent who isn’t a bigot is going to be suspicious of that.
Synnerman says
Who is the bottom on the front page entry for this article?
aifox says
yeah i want to know about jason smith also..i like steve but im wondering why theres still jason smith?
Michael says
Is this the gay definition of marriage? Seems to me the only point of it was to get Brent his american citizenship, which obviously didn’t work.
R.J says
Brent fucks for a living, and not always the same person. So why can’t steve fuck the same person regularly when he can’t get it from his husband (again, who fucks others for a living). Secondly, as for steve only seeing brent every so often, steve still has to work too. He can’t take care of the business and do his thing if he’s always out of the country. Some of you all are on some serious Jealous shit it sounds like.
Alias74 says
PATRICK SANDS…I love your style. We should collaborate some time! Get QMN to forward my email addy to you if you are interested!
Miss Tina Muran says
Looks hot his fucking someone while kissing his husband
sxg says
@RJ this isn’t as simple as an open relationship or marriage. Usually an open marriage/relationship is purely a physically open one based on sexual desires, not exactly connecting with another on an emotional level. And that is exactly what is happening with Jayson and Steve. Whatever they had going has gotten deeper than I think even they expected.
Maybe Steve is filling that void with something more permanent with Jayson that Brent had left when he couldn’t return to the US. I don’t know. I don’t see this being a permanent situation once Brent gets clearance to reside in the US, if that ever happens. Someone will be left out of the picture, and it’s either going to be Brent or Jayson.
BTW, the 2nd part of Brent’s interview from that youtube porn episode series coming out these days will have a deeper discussion about Brent and his current relationship situations.
Nico E Filippi says
This was the best interview I have ever read! ?The story be hide these two is poetic. I say that because they struggled against what others would call forbidden love. What makes me sad about this is when I hear that two have of them had to be split apart. I feel terrible when this happens to people who talk so passionately about each other. I surely hope that ?the happiness & true love of Brent+Steve is ever lasting and that they never again be separated.
tom says
2 big phonies. how can you advocate and stand for gay marriage then have an “open” on. this is the attitude that brings criticism to the issue. Also, Brent works in porn, that’s not what green cards are for. Perhaps there are other legal reasons. Has Brent paid taxes, had arrests? Ridiculous sob story.
T-Bird says
Talk about loaded softball questions.
Jesse says
The only relationship these two have now is purely business-related.
Jeff says
I have always thought these two were self-righteous tedious bores. The item I do find truly humourous about Steve is that in the past in interviews, he has expressed a desire to enter politics…I don’t care how liberal a local electorate is–with a porn related background, you will NOT get into public office.
uweschndr says
Hello Tom, you are a dirty rat, you describe Brent and Steve as swindlers. You do not seem to know have what done both for this to get the “marriage” of the same sex partnership or make possible for everyone according to right and law in the USA again. Such rats like you belong the wrong way round hung on and used torture be at the legs. I have pursued Brent’s journey through life since 2005. And has got, this in front of Steve, a relation had Brent. Unfortunately, in a tragedy at which Brent had to carry still for a long time this one ended where his own life also hung to one silk thread. Brent was an absolute lucky break the meet of Brent and Steve. The partnership to Steve was for Brent like a sheet anchor where he has created a new vitality again. It is heavy if two people show a grave credible relation around the authorities about such a long distance, separated.
sxg says
lmao wtf is all that mess above? hahaha
erin says
“Steve couldn’t go to Turks & Caicos(Brent’s parents place) in this Xmas, because maybe Brent’s parents don’t accept Steve as their son’s hubby anymore.
Instead Steve went to DC to warm his freezing ass.”
Is that true?lol
Gaurav says
I dont know whats happening between steve and the jason guy, but i respect their privacy and not be judgmental about their personal life because i dont consider myself as supreme as God… If they might b doing anything wrong, they will pay for it later… On other hand if they are doing something right, they will be paid for it nicely…
Sam says
I am sad that Brent is ultimately the only one getting screwed over by Steve’s new relationship. They can pretend that everyone is mutually happy about it, but when Brent returns to the US as a third wheel, I can’t see him being too happy. I hope he finds the strength to leave when I’m sure this has been the most important relationship in his life thus far. He deserves someone who is solely in love with him. Monogamy is not so much about sex as it is about love. I wouldn’t mind my partner sleeping with someone else…it’s when they fall in love that it becomes a big issue. Good luck Brent…we love you! Both you and Steve deserve to be happy, but it just may not be together.
Tag says
Patrick, I have to call a foul on this interview. You said everything was on the table but you failed to address the elephant in the room, Jayson and what now SEEMS to be a threeway relationship. Steve has been very open in his tweets and facebook posts about his relationship with Jayson. Take a look at his social media and his actions and I think it becomes quite clear that the “bitch INS agent” in Chicago was probably dead on. 1.) Steve lists being in a relationship with Jayson Smith on Facebook. No mention of his marriage. 2.) Most of his posts on social media concerning Brent are promotional in nature. (I think he admits in the interview that social media is one of the largest ways they promote the site.) And then there’s the time spent with Brent, bottom line it looks like that they will no longer be alone. He left Brent alone in Canada on their 5th Anniversary. Is that a happy marriage? Again maybe the bitch in Chicago was right.
In October he flew to be with Brent for his own birthday, only to have Jayson follow a couple of days later. He did not spend any of the holidays with his husband (BS on the comment that says he has a business to run and it can get expensive. He can run an internet business from anywhere there is connection, or even wireless phone for that matter. If he can afford to fly to DC why not Canada? Bottom line the business IS his husband.) BTW before the birthday trip to Canada, Jayson rarely tweeted to or about Brent and as has been mentioned got very hostile to questions. Now he has jumped onto the Brent Everett promotional band wagon, leaving one to wonder if they finally settled the business relationship. Again the bitch was probably right. Now the latest is he will be flying with Steve to Cancun for the club appearances next weekend. Odds are Steve won’t even bother to spend Brent’s birthday (the 10th) with him again begging the question is that the way a husband acts? Who cares about an open relationship? Well if you were going to bring it all to the table, Patrick, the relationship with Jayson should have been fair game.
As far as Brent getting back into the US. That seems a remote possibility. The policies have turned in favor of same-sex marriages, but the statement when that policy was made was that they would be afforded the same status of heterosexual marriages. Any INS agent with knowledge of Steve and Jayson’s relationship would certainly follow in “the bitch’s” footsteps. A heterosexual marriage with that kind of relationship going on reeks of fraud. Should we expect any less because it is a gay marriage? And if they think they won’t know… come on guys, at least take it off your social media! So bottom line is maybe it wasn’t a marriage of convenience before, but it certainly seems so now!
Samantha Styles says
Even Ray Charles can see Steve is in love with Jayson and not Brent. The Brent brand name is the cash cow and that is the only thing keeping these two associated. You can go on Brent’s twitter and clearly see he is still in love with Steve but go ahead and go through Steve’s social media accounts and the picture becomes clear who he preffers. Tag is spot on in his assesment. Give up this sham you guys aren’t fooling anyone especially the INS.
Eros says
Give me a fucking break! while i think there is something going on here that doesnt add up, there is no way in hell a straight, married, canadian/U.S. couple would have been separated like this. it is homophobia plain and simple.
Seaguy says
I have to say if nothing was off limits then why did you not ask about the three way relationship issue? Steve lists in a relationship with Jayson Smith on his FB page so fans want to know more. Jayson is a hot guy and is not a home wrecker but they have been fairly mum on the whole situation.
Tag says
Well I think my prediction about Steve not being with his husband on his Birthday is official. He teweeted to his “husband” to have a happy birthday weekend, but they will celebrate the “sequel” next weekend in Cancun. Come on, what true husband would do that? If you are going to be with him, go early and celebrate the actual day. Oh but that would mean that he and Jayson would be apart beacuse Jayson can’t take off untl the weekend. Can it be more obvious?
Eros you are right. A straight married couple would not be separated. If you look back at Brents blog when they were first separated, Brent said that Steve would follow him to Canada until they could get it straightened out. That hasn’t happened. But also a straight married couple where one spouse even privately carries on the kind of affair Steve does would most definitely be separated.
All Steve is doing now is delaying Brent’s Visa, or even more likely getting the possibility of it ever happening removed. When that happens it is pretty obvious where Steve will end up. So don’t put the blame on the government. It solely lies with Steve!
And If you do have another interview I think it is quite clear this is the most important question concerning Brent and Steve.
R.J says
I know this much. If being with brent is just a marketing tool, then they suck at marketing. If he wants people to think they are still together, then maybe tweeting to your new boyfriend is not the best option. maybe start an alias account and do that.
That raises another question. Neither Brent, Steve, or Jayson seem stupid so Im wondering if all the “I love you” tweets between Steve and Jayson are platonic (I know that sounds stupid) and any or all sexaual related tweets between Steven and Jayson are just jokes. I am hoping that is the case because I love Brent Everett and the thought that he maybe a third wheel in this relationship kinda pisses me off.
I am hoping that the back and forth tweets between Steve and Jayson are not serious but just jokes. Now if it’s not and they do have a relationship, I sure as hell hope Brent is getting him some on the side also. If he’s not, Im available if he doesn’t mind a chub. Just saying.
R. says
I was doubting everyone who said that the marriage was fake or they broke up and just haven’t told fans. I’ve looked at the pictures and the facebook and twitter post. Im now on board. I don’t even think they are married anymore. Look at recent photo of Brent and Steve. Brent has his wedding ring on his right hand which means, divorced, single or looking for love. Steve isn’t even wearing one anymore. Look at pic of steve and brent and steve and jayson, body language speaks volumes. An I just read a facebook post of steve saying: “I just got clocked at the gym. I left my iPhone on my lap and it was open to my boyfriend shirtless on Facebook. If they didn’t know I was a cocksucker before. They know now. LOL como se dice FAG???
not my husband or brent but “my boyfriend” I hope Brent has somebody new also. But in the back of my mind I still hope it’s not true.
Eric says
First of all I can’t stand this husband crap husband is a partner of a female not another male, there partners. Why all this heterosexual labeling ,there gay. gay men whether they’re married or partnered have outside hookups at some point. We all know that! : )