Continue from the heated topic about “Racial Preferences In Gay Porn” on Tuesday, porn star Marc Dylan just uploaded another video blog “Living In The Blogosphere: More About People’s Sexual Preferences” in response to the comments.
[UPDATE] Porn star Connor Kline just tweeted “For the record I made a joke, you’ll didn’t get it. It was a stupid comment, I realize that now. I’ve fucked & am friends with every race, like anyone that knows me knows that. I’d bet 75% of my friends are African American, and they all think you’ll are ridiculous for saying this shit. Stop making shit up in your heads. 🙂 thank youuuuuu. 🙂” and Connor posted pictures of his exes.
Marc Dylan – “Living In The Blogosphere and Part Two on the Topic of Sexual Preferences”
Connor Kline – “These are 4 of my exes. Drop the racist BS it was a joke.”
MarcDylan says
@nunya size implies more than height , but good try. Size could be mass , width , etc . Good rebuttal though it made me laugh. I’ll explain incase of any confusion . Two guys both. 5’9 one weighing 150lbs the other 200lbs are not the same size they are simply the same height. Thank you for the interaction. I hope you have a great day !
Filly says
…oh and then theres the part where u said “you couldnt care less what anyone thinks of you”.
Gurrrllll u r crazy glued to what people are thinking of you right now. For your own sanity u should probably just take a step back and breathe.
MarcDylan says
@filly at the moment it’s actually entertaining , when I get bored , I will stop responding. Thank you for the sage advice. It’s much appreciated.
Filly says
Yes defending one’s self amidst racist accusations (until you’re bored of it, that is) is what I call a festive and lively way to spend a Thursday for sure. Let’s order margaritas. Wheres that goddamned mariachi band when u need them?
MarcDylan says
@filly actually I don’t drink. Defending myself lol , I think I’m the one creating these blog posts on my site. I’m glad they are getting attention. I always enjoy a good discourse. While I couldn’t handle more than one margarita I do love mariachi …. See we found common ground. I’m actually replying from my phone at the gym , going for lunch with a friend shortly. I can still reply from the table should something Interest me. You are very wise , thank you for your guidance.
Filly says
You’re on a platform now so even if you don’t consciously register or acknowledge the effects of racism in your own daily life, honor the struggle that so many do endure consciously by honoring them with the words you speak.
Hows your grub?
beef says
so let me get this straight MD your descrediting a whole race publicly for kicks. so not only are you racist but also an attenion whore.
MarcDylan says
@filly now your talking sense and I’ll engage with you on a more real level. As far as what you said I agree . We are walking to Patsy’s now. Supposedly legendary pizza . I believe the oven is still coal fired which makes for my favorite pizza .
SuckItBaby says
Still on this? Geez.
Filly says
Once you stopped being an object and became a person I related to you thusly. Might be hard to watch any porn u do now though. Good luck with this sitch…not cute!
MarcDylan says
@filly check out my twitter Marc_Dylan I opted for the eggplant parm over the pizza. It’s fabulous. Just posted a pic as I do with all my culinary adventures.
Kevin Davis says
I’m a black man… no offense, but the average white guy is not cute TO ME. I’m not into Marc Dylan and don’t have a problem with who he likes or doesn’t like. I actually feel the same way about him. I’m not really into Asian men. Doesn’t make me racist. Is there prejudice in the gay porn industry? Absolutely. You got Sean Cody who has yet to put one of it’s Premium models in a scene with a person of color….except maybe Esteban with Calvin…but Landon, one of the hottest black models, had to scene with not so desirable looking white men until Ethan, and never saw Ethan again after that. And yes there is bias in the gay community. Black gay men can be very prejudice as well and always talking about how they hate seeing black men with white men and how the white guy is never really cute. Which is very true, it seems like the white men who were rejected by his own kind are always running into the arms of black men. And the ones who think they are all that and a bag of chips are so quick to be color stuck.
Filly says
You can’t stop living! http://www.nypost.com/p/pagesix/real_swag_hag_of_jersey_qdu8qr1yQ8A77f7W0wzn2L
Dean says
lol I had no idea Connor Kline was bisexual. All this time I thought he was gay. But, then again I’m not surprised.
Kevin Davis says
omg i just read everything and Filly has the best reads ever. I love you Filly.
AJL says
@Marc Dylan: Since this debate began you have been alleged to be a number of things (I do not find racist to be at all applicable) and answered several questions. The one questions that you have never been asked or, if you have, answered, is what is it about black/asian/or latino (non-white) men you do not find attractive? The reason why that question captures the sentiment of the more reasonable members of your opposition is two fold. Race mainly (but not exclusively) connotes biological origin, ie Asian men are human beings of Asian descent. Beyond that there is no truly profound commonality, biologically speaking. Therefore, if you list a set of disqualifying physical characteristics it would be easy for the opposition to respond with photos of a number of men of color who would presumably not fit that null set. You could even theoretically find an Asian man that has all of the same physical attributes as say, Aiden from Sean Cody (one of my personal favorites, I am sure you would agree). The aesthetic/physical diversity of an entire race is what makes disqualifying that entire race on the basis of looks somewhat puzzling. Second, when you judge an entire race of men unattractive based on those select characteristics it becomes unnecessarily reductive in that it paints that entire group with the same look instead of reading them as individuals. All of that said, I appreciate the fact that you say that if you met a man of color you would not hesitate to sleep with them, I think that is a very nuanced and therefore palatable response. I choose to take you at your word on that.
AJL says
I meant to say a man of color that you find attractive.
Kevin Davis says
I’ll answer that question myself, I’m not into asian men because I don’t like their look. Just like someone here might not like my dark skin and kinky hair, but I’m ok with that because I like it.
pornbit says
I’m not really going to get into this whole thing but I just wanted to commend you AJL, I have really enjoyed your well reasoned posts.
Oh, I guess I will say something. I’m black and I’m really not that concerned whether or not white guys find me attractive. What I do find interesting is the refusal of some to acknowledge the massive role socialisation plays in our individual ‘preferences’. Socialisation has EVERYTHING to do with the physical traits that we find attractive. Do you really think it’s a coincidence that white skin, blue/green eyes, straight hair – i.e. the traits commonly associated with beauty are what the majority of people find attractive? That’s what we are fed a steady diet of from birth, that those traits are somehow ‘better’ or ‘prettier’. So no, someone finding only white guys sexually attractive isn’t inherently racist, but it would be fruitful to explore why that is and look at the root causes. I think this would be a worthy discussion. To be honest, I’m more concerned with how this internalised racism affects black people. We are subject to the same messages and it causes us to place value on these physical traits that many of us don’t possess. I would love for us as black people to get to the point where we love and embrace the traits that are inherently ours. But I’m realistic enough to understand that it will take many generations of deprogramming to get to that point, just as it took hundreds of years of conditioning to get to the place we are now.
Jordy says
I’ve traveled all around the world. I’ve seen a lot of black people. Even their skin color varies from person to person – region to region – continent to continent. The idea of ‘not being into black guys’ is just weird. Which black guys? What trait? What feature? What distinguishing characteristic on black guys is the thing that turns you off? I don’t know Marc Dylan and have never seen any of his performances. I hope he’s happy and living a good life, but he sounds like a guy who grew up in some small town without any real diversity and is just stuck in a particular mindset. Mr. Dylan should not have sex with anyone that he doesn’t want to, but I hope he comes to a place at some point where he realizes the folly of his thoughts on race.
Truth Teller says
Porn is a job. Marc are you basically saying that if a studio wanted you to fuck a non white guy that would say no???
Its essentially the same as a secretary saying I wont work with black/asian colleague?
At the end of the day porn is a job!!!
Martin K says
Truth teller. No. Even if we weren’t talking about sex where we always have a legal right to say no anything we’re not comfortable with, it’s not a job, it’s a contract. And like any contract you can take it or leave it based on anything you want.
danny says
@MarcDylan: Quit wasting your time with these morons. You’re smart, funny, sexy but definitely not racist!
Jordi Lim says
Many people here said Asian is “short” WHAT I’m 5’7 in height ok.
Rocko says
i have always wanted to make a comment on this type of convo but I find it pointless trying to give so much explanation. Theres a limit where HATE starts… thats my only concern. Everybody has that right to have a preference; grow a pair.
Anyways,
But Mark, oh Mark, he is so dreamy. If I bump into him Ill just faint. True Story.
MIke says
Zach is such a whiny wet blanket. I haven’t clicked on that site in 6 months. QMN is where I go to read about new releases and who’s fucking who!! WHO THE HELL CARES about who that other jerk is writing about, he’s either kissing his friend’s asses or trying to create controversy.
Jennifer says
Zachary Sire from the Sword is posting all sorts of horrible comments about Marc, but rejecting the truth about himself. This is the post I sent that he rejected in the story about Diesel Washington’s video blog on the subject:
Zach, you’re stupid. And let me point out that it’s ridiculous that a person who makes a living being a complete dick is some sort of crusader for racial equality. You’re a professional bully and a bigot to all sorts of different types. You thrive on degrading people for their weight, their appearance and I can’t think of anything you love more than a porn star with a mental illness making bad decisions.
Marc never once tried to justify anything. That’s you thinking you’re a lot more important than you are. Marc has posted many long, rambling video blogs these ones just caught your ear because they seemed to allow a scum bag like you to act self righteous.
As for Mr Washington, you can’t reason with someone like that. I laughed out loud at the stupidity of his tweets and this video blog. He’s just angry because he thinks that he’s always type cast as an angry black man. But guess what – he is.
Ken Doll says
A fat man can always slim down. I cannot change my skin color, or the fact that I’m black. That my friend is what you call discrimination. Again, why won’t you date a dark skinned person? You can’t say facial features. That’s a generalization. So it all boils down to the fact that you’re discriminating against their dark complexion.
I don’t care who you date, but at the same time I feel like there is a specific reason why you choose not to date a certain group of people. Don’t give a bs excuse. We don’t believe you!!
Ken Doll says
Another thing I want to say, why is this issue always whites vs blacks? Why do other minorities groups get left out all the time? At least black people are in porn even if they are 5%. Other minorities are hardly ever featured especially asian men. Has CF ever had an Asian model?!
BradBrad says
Sword is a fun site; a bit different from QMN for sure, with a much more humorous tone and really only for the thick-skinned. I go to both daily and enjoy reading all the comments immensely. No one is funnier (at least to me) as my gay brothers talking about sex and rebutting each other with vulgarities. Its worth at least a few giggles a day.
noah says
So if I hire him on rentboy he’ll turn me down at the door?
alexi says
Marc is not 5’9″. 5’7″ at best.
Olaf says
This issue has been mind boggling to my for a long time. If someone says they find no African American men attractive he is a racist. I though Marc Dylan had retired. Hopefully we’ll hear no more from him very soon
Marcus Gehling says
As a white man I am SICK OF RACISM! Yes. The blacks have their black history month. Their black entertainment television. Their black miss USA pageant. On the view one day whoopee Goldberg wanted a round of applause cause she had an all black panel. Their is also the NAACP. God forbid whites to have one so yes I am sick of being a victim of racisim too
BradBrad says
Marcus Gehling, Asshole. That will make a great business card for you.
Marcus Gehling says
BradBrad can’t take facts can you?
Jordi Lim says
Ow I love Whoopi Goldberg and Oprah Winfrey coz they have brains…I think black people can be a true friends.
pornfreak says
@Marcus Gehling I needed something to put me to sleep. Thanks.
BradBrad says
Deeply dumb Marcus. Keep digging. I hope you have youth as an excuse to be this under-educated.
Green says
Why Americans are so hypocritical?
Marcus Gehling says
BradBrad let me educate you, you pompous ass.
There has been Miss Black America
There is Miss America that is open to ALL
There is Miss Black USA
There is Black Entertainment Television
Black History Month
Don’t you dare be condescending toward me. I have spoke facts. What’s your come back? Duh “Deeply Dumb” showing how obtuseness you are
Jordi Lim says
Let’s moved on, Mr. Marc Dylan is just a one guy who happens to have his own opinions and preferences on his job. Maybe one day, he’ll realize that socializing with other races wouldnt do harm to him and makes him a better man. Asian, Black and Non-White Latinos can be as trustworthy and faithful as Caucasian people. Time Will Tell.
Pacific792 says
That awkward moments when you realize you and Marc Dylan bought the same tank from Target.
pornfreak says
@Marcus Gehling You really should stop. Your inability to use appropriate syntax isn’t helping your case.
pornfreak says
@Jennifer You really have too much time on your hands if not having your comment posted on a gay porn blog upsets you.
OpenYourMind says
I get really sick of the PC crowd.
If I find older short obese men unattractive, that’s my own preference.
If a female finds an older man who’s obese, but has a lot of money attractive, then that’s what she likes.
Many men openly say they hate guys who have no hair, or are too pale without a tan.
If I find younger men unattractive, that’s my preference. If I dont’ find women attractive, that’s my preference and attraction.
It’s interesting when it comes to race, all of a sudden people confuse labor laws and affirmative action, with what I find attractive. It’s none of anyone’s business whether I find something attractive or not. Sorry about it, but this means age, height, hairy, tan, sex, religion, rich or poor, stupid or smart, race, occupation, etc, etc. There’s a lot of things that go into attraction. I know many people who hate whites. I know other whites who can’t stand other whites.
It’s interesting if a white is “suspected of being racist”, they must show pictures of themselves having anal sex with a person of color to prove they aren’t racist. WTF.
PC Nazis, go f*ck yourselves.