SAD NEWS: About an hour ago, this shocking message appeared on Erik Rhodes‘ Twitter:
Erik Rhodes has left us this morning at 5.30am his family and boyfriend Riccardo are in deep pain, please respect this sad moment
His fans were shocking. Then about half an hour later, Adam Q. Robinson, the VP of Production for Falcon Studios and Raging Stallion Studios confirmed this sad news:
It is with great sadness that I announce the passing of Erik Rhodes this morning. Erik died of a heart attack in his sleep.
Erik has been an amazing friend & part of the Falcon family for 8 years, a man of steel on the outside but all teddy bear on the inside.
RIP Erik Rhodes…. You will be missed…
Gleeholic says
Omg! Really? That’s shocking. My condolences to his family, friends and bf. He was not much younger than me (1/2/1982). I did like him. I will miss him.
Jr says
That is very sad. There has always beauty, if not necessarily a lot of joy, in his brutal honestly. There are things that could be said about some of the choices he has made, but I’ll save that for another time
Tommy says
It is sad. Just the other day The Sword ran a story about how many steroids he was using. It’s a message to all the other young porn stars put there that it’s not worth looking good to die young.
AlwaysHard says
Sad indeed. On a collision course with death and could not stop. RIP.
Anderson says
OH MY GOD! I’M SHOCKED!
We were talking about him days ago!
Condolences to family and friends, and I hope he is well wherever he is.
Sad, a handsome man and very important to the gay community!
I will miss him. 🙁
bernardo says
WOW!!!!! Erik was one of my favorite porn stars. He was such an amazing performer. He sucked dick, rimmed ass, got fucked and fucked. He had passion in all of his scenes. He was with a girl when he started porn then he had sex with a man and he realized that he was gay and loved it. Steroids are dangerous and can kill you. He will truly be missed. RIP Erik.
Billy says
This is really sad. He always seemed like a tortured soul. From posts on his blog to comments in interviews, he seemed to have a lot of deamons. Hopefully now he can find some peace. He was a hot, hot man who didn’t take any shit from anybody, and I respected him for that. Such a shame.
boscoz says
very sad news
Chris says
RIP Erik Rhodes. This guy had an unbelievable amount of sociopathic haters after him when he decided to make his issues with depression and drugs public.
Jake says
I’m saddened by the news but not shocked – his last update on his tumblr blog was about how much steroids he’s currently taking. Unfortunately only a matter of time before something like this happened – maybe a wake-up call to the rest of the industry?
Hope he finds the peace he never seemed to find in life.
almatolmen says
All I’ve seen of ER are pics no action but I always wanted. Now when I do it will be that odd feeling you can get when you watch old TV reruns and realize everyone in the cast is dead-sad but glad there is a permanent record of their work. And folks this NOT the time and place for a steroids critique!
Mrs Patrick Campbell says
We are sad.
What drugs had Mary been taking at the time of her expiratia?
Olaf says
Yes . This is very sad. Save your critiques about steroid and drug abuse for a different time. If you’ve ever enjoyed his work, have reverence
Cody D'amico says
The fact that a man so beautiful on the outside could publically share the kind of torture he underwent on the inside knowing what kind of damage it would do to his image I think speaks volumes about him as a person. He could’ve kept it all hidden and private. He could’ve used his looks to make himself seem perfect. Instead he spoke honestly of himself and admitted the reason he worked so hard to look so good was because of how insecure and inferior he felt. That is the kind of brutal honesty we should respect and remember. People are going to use this as an opportunity to bash him and give their I-told-you-sos. Those of us who recognize how rare he was, tortured but rare, know this is a sad day and can only hope he’s found peace. The people he’s left behind are the ones who are going to have to deal with the pain and no one’s opinions about Erik either way will matter to that pain. He was loved and he went out of his way to share himself honestly beyond the images of his body and his sexuality. Say whatever you want about the man but his insides matched his outsides: stunning, sexy, a little unreal, hard and soft all at the same time. This is a sad day.
Chris S says
I never thought I would be so saddened by the death of a porn star, but i can honestly say this news has upset me a lot.
He was one of my favorite porn stars, always had a lot of energy and fun in what he did.
I will miss seeing him in films.
A great loss to the industry…
He brought happiness to millions all over the world!!! :o(
bernardo says
I agree this is a very sad day. And I agree he was the most honest performer in the industry. Erik Rhodes is a legend. One of my favorite moments of Erik is when he was on kathy griffin’s my life on the d-list where kathy was hosting the gayvn awards and he took off his shirt and was posing that amazing body. That was a special moment.
Gavin H says
It doesn’t seem real. He was one of my favorite porn stars. Taking GH is known to raise blood pressure. I guess after taking it for so long and at such high levels his heart couldn’t take it anymore.
Marco says
Sad 🙁
Michael says
Beautifully said Cody D’amico it is a sad day indeed. I loved Erik for his brutal honesty and his willingness to share his demons. I will miss reading his thoughts, his very unique look at life, and his sardonic humor.
manu says
Very sad 🙁 He had his faults but I loved his honesty and his dark sense of humour . I will miss him
RIP Erik .
Anderson says
“I never thought I would be so saddened by the death of a porn star, but i can honestly say this news has upset me a lot”
Me too, @Chris S.
I’m deeply sad and perturbed since I read this.
Tom says
Very sad news. That being said, he came across as a very extreme character. I remember seeing a video of him with his eyes all drooping after taking drugs and what not. He came across as someone who didn’t understand the term “moderation.” Not trying to be heartless. Just speaking the truth.
James says
To echo everyone, it’s so sad. He just never seemed happy. It appeared he tried to make himself happy with various things, but nothing seemed to work. I wish someone could have helped him. Hopefully, wherever he is, he has found peace. He definitely was different and he will be missed.
DJ says
I can’t believe this,
and I’m in shock too..
RIP Erik.
MJ says
I’m still in shock and disbelief. I mean with the what he talked about, you had a feeling that it wouldn’t be long before something like this happened, but it’s easy to think it wouldn’t. don’t get me wrong, it’s still sad to see someone gone so young an age. only 30 years old :(. damn. My condolences to the family
Woohooboy says
A sad end to a life filled with turbulance. Whilst Erik was bold enough to share his ongoing struggles with depression and drug usage, there was hope in the minds of many that he would somehow find a way to overcome it.
Sometimes, that just isn’t the case.
RIP Erik/James. May you find the peace you’ve longed for in death that eluded you in life…..
Gleeholic says
I can still remember the first time I saw him fucking roman heart. It breaks my heart.
Alex701 says
i wonder what Diesel Washington is gonna say about this… he has always hated Erik and was jealous of his success.
Wally says
The saddest thing is to see blogs post this news with affiliate links so they can cash in on it.
Michael says
James, I am so unbelievably saddened by your death. Today, the term “porn star” is thrown around so easily, but you are perhaps the only one of our generation that can be said to have truly been a star. You showed true signs of enormous talent in your writing as well. I so very much wished you could have found happiness or peace. I hope you have found it now. RIP.
Matias says
@Cody D’amico, so well written I simply agree.
RIP ER.
Justin Simpson says
I can’t stop crying. One of the first STARS I ever really became fascinated by when I started watching gay porn.
MJ says
Pull it together y’all. Anybody shocked is an idiot and doesn’t know the first thing about Erik. If you’re sad then you need to get some real friends and a reality check.
oscar says
Really sad news. Most people will miss you, Erik. But a few desperately weep for your absence, James. RIP
alessandro says
I read about his depression not so many months ago and since I hoped he could survive to his demons and inner turmoil.
RIP Eric, may God bless you in all his joy.
Aj says
I will miss seeing him in movies and
a great loss to the industry.
RIP Erik Rhodes
Mel says
Rip James, may your soul find rest.
Bull says
I hope he has found the peace he so desperately wanted in life. RIP Erik
odawg says
I’m just speechless. Just incredibly sad. He will be missed.
RioBoy says
SOOOO SAD!!!! =((((( Never thought this would happen to me….saw it on work and almost cried!
JockBoy says
We all have our faults.. everyone of us. RIP Man … Ur legend will live on …
Luca says
You were the very best, James. No one came close. You are in a class by yourself and all the others who come after you will be judged by you. RIP. You shared quite openly your pain and suffering, as well as that beautiful body. I hope your pain and hurt are gone.
alex says
Sad news. And a needed warning to people that steroids are not the answer.
fireys says
Tu nous manqueras à tous. RIP.
Autechre says
Sad? Maybe. Shocking? Who the fcuk are you fcuking trying to kid???
ricky says
heart attack in his sleep? i’m 54 have congestive heart failure and i’m still around and ticking and evidently in better health than him. there is WAY more to this than a heart attack.
Me says
You guys are really shocked? You obviously never read his blog. This ending was SO inevitable. Sad, nonetheless.
scb says
Family BF and friends….take comfort in knowing this tortured soul is no longer being tortured…he is at peace!
The old saying “die young, stay pretty” is fitting for this situation…but always very sad when used. xxxxxx
Nico says
I’m really sad, not just me but many others who have been struggling with similar demons. I’ve always been worried about him. rest in peace, man. Youwere more than a porn star. You were a nice man, and we’re glad you shared your thoughts and feelings with us.
Clark says
I got to meet Erik when he was just starting out. We shared an elevator at IML in Chicago and i ran into him later in the evening in the hotel lobby. He started talking because he recognized me and I got to spend the better part of the whole IML/Leather Market/Grabby weekend getting to know him. Never did the conversation turn to porn or sex and when people would come up to him for a photo he’d just look at me and wink. He was great at ‘being’ Erik Rhodes. We kept in touch via email and chat now and then over the years and I feel very fortunate to have gotten to know the man behind the image and the screen.
My most sincere condolences to his family, brother, and friends.
NutBuster Blog says
I was just reading about the rivalry he had going with Diesel Washington. Then I come across this unfortunate news. I wish people would realize what’s really important while they’re here. He is the 2nd gay porn star to pass away this year that I know of. RIP Erik and Sean.
MikeP says
Sad. I was a long time fan, and I always looked forward to his new scenes; he always delivered. My condolences to his family and friends.
Steve says
Very sad. I met Erik for the first time three weeks ago at one of the Grabby Events; so full of life and in his element.
Concussion says
I never read his blog – was he addicted to other things incliduding steroids?
Broko says
So sad. Addictive personalities, I can identify
Jarnov says
This is sad news. My condolences go to his friends and family, especially his identical twin brother whom he seemed really close with. RIP Erik.
ed says
oh wow this is such sad news. I hope he finds peace. He was one of my favorite performers he will be missed.
My condolences to his family and loved ones.
dodj says
Just the other day, I was thinking of posting a msg that he should retire and perhaps spend his time behind the camera, for a change…but this new is so unexpected!
CRAVEN says
I’m not shocked at all, when he was doing steroids plus crystal meth, mix those two together and sooner or later death becomes you. Steroids won’t keep you beautiful for life, it will destroy your looks, body and life. He obviously over did the steroids and continued doing meth. So to hear about his death doesn’t surprise me. We are all so hooked on a big muscular body model, hopefully this news will be a wake up call to others.
Brad says
We will miss you Erik!